BIRDS OF A FEATHER
At home, we hang a birdfeeder just outside our kitchen window and fill it daily with songbird mix. It’s a joy to witness the different species sing, share, dine and socialize at the feeder.
Bluejays establish a pecking order and are the first ones to complain about their hunger when the feeder empties. Their loud chirps and bold swooping flight patterns contribute to their powerful image. Along with these noisy jays, the songbird seed attracts a variety of brightly hued Cardinal families, Red Bellied Woodpeckers and Downy Woodpeckers, Song Sparrows and House Sparrows, American Goldfinches, portly Pigeons and chubby Mourning Doves. Occasionally, a murder of rowdy crows flies in noisily trying to claim ownership of the feeder, until I shoo them away. If we add meal worms to the feeder mix, the birds show their appreciation in droves. The proximity to power lines, tree branches and roof top allows for constant socialization and some polite waiting for turns. The squirrels hang out below the bird feeders and fill their bellies with the seeds that fall to the ground.
Some of the birds are well-behaved. Black-capped Chickadees are friendly and mannerly at the feeder. They’re not aggressive and don’t chase off other birds. They come to the feeder and take seeds one-at-a-time, then fly off to nearby branches to digest. They don’t make a mess at the feeder, like some other birds. White-Breasted Nuthatches can crawl head-first down the feeder pole. They are small birds with big personalities who entertain us daily. We get to know each of them, and they’re used to us standing at the window to watch. As soon as I go outside to refill the feeder, much chirping takes place. With so much gratitude, a girl can feel like Snow White at times.
Our feeder makes me think of JSL dining rooms during dinner. There are all types of wonderful personalities who come to gather for social interaction, sustenance and friendship. Social bonds are created through intimate conversations and relationships grow that contribute to the sense of community and belonging that sets JSL apart from other senior living residences. The young dining servers enjoy their tasks and are complimented regularly. The residents feel comfortable celebrating their lives with our attentive JSL staff.
Like the residents, birds often develop a routine around feeding times. The daily dining ritual provides an important structure that contributes to a sense of stability in the community. People dress up a bit and look forward to seeing each other after a busy day of activities. Birds may feel safer feeding in groups, reducing the risk of predation. Likewise, communal dining creates a supportive environment where JSL humans feel secure and comfortable sharing meals and experiences with other members of our species, and welcome other resident guests who fly in for a weekend visit. There are several compelling reasons why communal dining contributes to the good health and well-being of residents. Socializing with peers during meals combats loneliness and reduces isolation, which are known risk factors for depression and cognitive decline.
Communal living environments like JSL foster a sense of community and belonging. Residents can build relationships, offer support to each other, and develop friendships over shared meals. This social network provides emotional support, encouragement, and a sense of security. These are crucial for older adults, especially those who may have limited social circles.
Overall, communal living enhances the quality of life for older adults and our avian friends, by promoting social connections, improving nutrition, supporting mental and emotional well-being, and potentially extending longevity. Feeling part of a community and having meaningful social relationships can make a significant difference in how seniors perceive their lives and their overall happiness. JSL’s nutritious and delicious kosher meals in communal dining are just some of the ways we offer our residents opportunities for happy aging in a positive and supportive environment.
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Shabbat Shalom.
