THE SHAMASH

Jewish Senior Life of Metropolitan Detroit has long been a place of refuge, care, and community for Jewish seniors. In a world that sometimes can feel disconnected and isolated, JSL stands as a beacon of warmth, love, and shared values. This season, as we celebrate Hanukkah, it’s especially fitting to reflect on how staff and the hundreds of community volunteers are living symbols of the Shamash candle, who illuminate the lives of everyone they encounter with compassion, wisdom and care.

In the Jewish tradition, the menorah holds a central place during the eight days of Chanukah. The Shamash is set apart from the other eight candles, as it serves a special purpose. This candle is used to light the other candles, ensuring that light, joy, and unity spread throughout the home. The Shamash, in essence, is a symbol of selfless service and generosity, its purpose is not to shine for its own benefit but to light the way for others.

Wednesday evening, Mitzvah Day volunteers came to serve the holiday meal during Christmas and the first night of Hanukkah at Meer Apartments. Under the guidance of our creative and talented Dining Room Manager, Laura Shields, generous community volunteers jumped in to serve delighted residents who enjoyed a delicious Chinese dinner and schmoozing with some new people. In so many ways, the volunteers got more back than they gave and reflected on the meaning of the Shamash candle. Their efforts did not seek attention or personal gain; instead, they enjoyed the camaraderie and the smiles on the faces of those they served.

For the residents of JSL, this time of year can be a reminder of their own unique role in the broader community. Many of these individuals have lived rich, full lives, experiencing both the joys and challenges that come with aging. Throughout their years they have gained a wealth of knowledge, experience, and perspective that they continue to share with others.

Just as the Shamash lights the other candles, the residents at JSL often serve as guides, mentors, and sources of inspiration to each other as well as the younger generations who visit. Whether they’re sharing stories of their childhoods, discussing their journeys through life, or offering advice on how to navigate difficult moments, these older adults light the way. Their wisdom is invaluable, and it’s often passed down through simple conversations or through acts of kindness, teaching by their example how to live with strength, resilience, and love.

Many of JSL’s residents are symbols of continuity within the Jewish community, preserving traditions and customs that date back generations. They light the flames of culture, faith, and community for each other and for the next generation, just as the Shamash ensures that each night of Chanukah is illuminated with light.

The staff of Jewish Senior Life plays an equally important role in lighting the lives of the residents. With each act of care, each moment of compassion, and each thoughtful gesture, they embody the selflessness of the Shamash. Their work – whether in healthcare, support services, or daily operations, often goes unseen, yet is vital in creating a safe and welcoming environment for all who call JSL home.

Like the Shamash, the staff are always looking out for the needs of others. They ensure that the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of the residents are met with the utmost respect and dignity. Whether it’s helping a resident with mobility issues, listening to someone’s stories, or organizing activities that bring the community together, the amazing JSL staff are there to “light” the way, providing support, comfort, and companionship. Residents often reflect on how much they feel valued and cared for in a deeply personal way by the administrators, program directors and resident service coordinators.

Chanukah is a time of celebration, of remembering the miracles of the past, and of reaffirming the power of light to overcome darkness. At JSL, the festivities around Chanukah are an opportunity for the community to come together and reflect on the themes of the holiday. The concurrence of Christmas with Chanukah this year made the holiday season even more special for everyone.

We can be like the Shamash. We can be a symbol of light and bring warmth and guidance to the lives of others. Through all our actions, both big and small, we are reminded that we can make a difference in each other’s lives. The light we offer others can have the power to brighten even their darkest days.

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Chanukah Sameach!